"Every time I listen to music I like while I work, I think of my old work colleague and friend"

Or was there something entirely different we could do? Something that had nothing to do with music and everything to do with us being happier. Could we take a break and buy a latte at that cool hole-in-the-wall down the street? Could we walk to Whole Foods and buy a small bunch of flowers for our desk? Could we spend five minutes laughing with a colleague?
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“I am almost a hundred years old; waiting for the end, and thinking about the beginning.

There are things I need to tell you, but would you listen if I told you how quickly time passes?

I know you are unable to imagine this.

Nevertheless, I can tell you that you will awake someday to find that your life has rushed by at a speed at once impossible and cruel. The most intense moments will seem to have occurred only yesterday and nothing will have erased the pain and pleasure, the impossible intensity of love and its dog-leaping happiness, the bleak blackness of passions unrequited, or unexpressed, or unresolved.” 
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That was it. She listened to music. Music she liked. Music she could rock out to. Music that wasn’t just white noise or classical or sounds to make the background chatter go away. Music that made her dance a bit in her chair.

The way you come across when a breakup with your friend does happen is like walking with barefoot holding sandals in your hand. 

There comes many stages where you dont want to come out but stay but realise that you should have come out then itself later.

When someone says we are best friends it is not always true and it means they were truthful to each other every time but they stay with little compromises. 

There comes a point of time where your friend keeps a distance for a cause hoping that you would understand . But they never know that a simple cause would make lifelong distance from then. 

  • "My friend knows what Iam, he definitely understands my situation". But the other " Am I Disturbing her, why does she want me to go away ? Anyway he/she is my friend so i will wait"
  • He/She hangouts with others but makes their friend feel alone and at this point of time the knot of the thread starts loosening.
  • He/She starts shouting at you for no reason but because she/he is upset with the other whom they cared.
  • They start ignoring each other but bear a hell within inside themselves waiting for the other to respond which never happens.
  • They lose the value of their relation
  • By the time, when something odd happens in life - their friend will be the first one who comes into their thought but guilty stops them.
  • Self respect,ego stops relations here. They say themselves it would have been better if they were there in my life.
  • They may come back into normal relation again but the fear that they face of losing again will never go down and no more closeness like before would happen.
Never End Relations like love, friendship,brotherhood ,beliefs at 99% because by the time you realize 100% , we people end up losing them and start regretting for our actions.

This isn't ending but the beginning of a new chapter in your life. Life is like a book with chapters named relations, some day or other it has to end . Life is like a novel: until the very last page you don't know how it will end. Otherwise it wouldn't be worth reading.

The question was simple, powerful, and important: What could we do today to make our life — right where we are — just a little bit better?
So, to you: What can you do today to make it a bit better right where you are?

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